How many times have we heard " Forgive him, his intentions are good." As a result, we reluctantly, grudgingly do acknowledge that he hasn't done such a bad thing after all. We recognize in that person a good heart, and intention to help.
Whereas, some people, they seemingly, outwardly might help, but in the process might be extracting their "pound of flesh", like Shylock did. It very often might be too late, by the time their true colours are shown. Trust doesn't come easily to me, and I hardly open my heart to anyone. But what I do is, I look out for these signs.
A good heart has several signs:
1. a tendency for the owner to be there whenever you need them, whether you want them at that moment or not.
2. An instinct for your moods, and the best thing to say
3. A tendency to hug, and say" No matter if you've murdered somebody, I'm there to help you bury the body"
4. If you wandered off without telling, they're the only ones brave enough to say, and say sharply " You're an absolute idiot! What if something had happened to you?", and then slap you, when you need it!
5. They're the ones who'll keep you company, if you're locked outside the house and don't have the key.
I'm really lucky that I actually do have friends who would do all this for me, and so much more.
Watch out for these signs, and when you do find them in a person, never let them go!!
Whereas, some people, they seemingly, outwardly might help, but in the process might be extracting their "pound of flesh", like Shylock did. It very often might be too late, by the time their true colours are shown. Trust doesn't come easily to me, and I hardly open my heart to anyone. But what I do is, I look out for these signs.
A good heart has several signs:
1. a tendency for the owner to be there whenever you need them, whether you want them at that moment or not.
2. An instinct for your moods, and the best thing to say
3. A tendency to hug, and say" No matter if you've murdered somebody, I'm there to help you bury the body"
4. If you wandered off without telling, they're the only ones brave enough to say, and say sharply " You're an absolute idiot! What if something had happened to you?", and then slap you, when you need it!
5. They're the ones who'll keep you company, if you're locked outside the house and don't have the key.
I'm really lucky that I actually do have friends who would do all this for me, and so much more.
Watch out for these signs, and when you do find them in a person, never let them go!!
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