Monday, 16 December 2013

Looking Back on 2013


2013 has been an eventful year, in more ways than one. It has had its share of highs and lows. But this year has had many things to learn from.
For one, I've experienced failure for the first time. Up till then, what ever I'd attempted had always been fairly successful, and I'd probably been taking it for granted. But failing an exam, a really important exam at that, gave me the shake up and reality check I needed, and it taught me never to take anything for granted. What it has also taught me, is that you always have second chances, and one failure isn't the end of the world. Life is so much bigger than that!

Secondly, I've learnt that insecurities are not worth keeping close, as they hurt no one but ourselves. The worst thing anyone can do, is constantly think about what other people are thinking about you. As long as you're secure, nothing else matters.
Thirdly, value the people who respect your worth. Forget those who don't. I've learnt this lesson the hard way. Obsessing over those friends who suddenly forget about you, who simply don't have time for you anymore doesn't help; It just gives you a lot of pain. Forget them, because they're just not worthy of your tears. Family is the best support there is.. Don't ever let go of them.
Fourthly, learn to forgive. This lightens the burdens and gives you closure. Opens the door to happiness.
Lastly, live life to the fullest. Enjoy, savour every drop of it. Remember the happy memories, let go of the sad ones, but learn from every experience you've ever had.
For me, this is the year before life in the real world finally starts, and I'm enjoying every bit of it! Possibilities are many, and are just around the corner. I can't wait to find them out!!! I've determined that 2014 is going to be the best year ever!!!

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